Joan,
Beyond all the correct technical answers here, remember what your hubby learned long ago and what you've seen him do for ages: "Look where you want to go, not where you are."
Nothing is more intimidating than looking at the edge of the road you're worried about. Unfortunately, it's just human nature, but our neuro-sensors assume you want to go toward what you are concentrating on, even though your brain is screaming, “don’t go there.”
I teach motivation techniques, and an illustration that I frequently use works here too.
It’s sort of like a coach telling his pitcher, “Now you can get this guy out; just pitch him low and inside. He’s a sucker for that pitch, and even if he connects, the best he can do is pop it up.” So the pitcher concentrates, does just that, and strikes out the batter.
But if the coach tells the pitcher, “Whatever you do, don’t give him a high outside pitch or he’ll hit it out of the park,” guess what the pitcher is concentrating on? Where he’s most likely to pitch the ball and what the batter does with it.
As Yogi Berra once said, “90% of this game is mental…the other half is physical.”
Good luck and happy Trikin'
Beyond all the correct technical answers here, remember what your hubby learned long ago and what you've seen him do for ages: "Look where you want to go, not where you are."
Nothing is more intimidating than looking at the edge of the road you're worried about. Unfortunately, it's just human nature, but our neuro-sensors assume you want to go toward what you are concentrating on, even though your brain is screaming, “don’t go there.”
I teach motivation techniques, and an illustration that I frequently use works here too.
It’s sort of like a coach telling his pitcher, “Now you can get this guy out; just pitch him low and inside. He’s a sucker for that pitch, and even if he connects, the best he can do is pop it up.” So the pitcher concentrates, does just that, and strikes out the batter.
But if the coach tells the pitcher, “Whatever you do, don’t give him a high outside pitch or he’ll hit it out of the park,” guess what the pitcher is concentrating on? Where he’s most likely to pitch the ball and what the batter does with it.
As Yogi Berra once said, “90% of this game is mental…the other half is physical.”
Good luck and happy Trikin'