Best of luck with whatever decision you make. You can add lift kits, rake kits, and independent rear ends, your trike will never steer like a 2 wheeler. It has been a hard 2 years transitioning from my Ultra to the trike. Trikes don't lean, you have to muscle them. I'm no spring chicken, 68 years old with my share of infirmities. Can't hold an Ultra up anymore, and just not ready for a rocking chair. The trike was about my only alternative. We have put over 30,000 miles on the 09. It is still a kick in the pants to ride, get caught in a rain storm, find new places, get cold, get hot, that is why we all chose motorcycles a long time ago. Time catches up with us, Trikes give us a little more time.