Father in-law

[wlivin2]

My wife's family needs prayers her dad passed away today I need the strength to take care of things for them . I'm just glad it was me there and not my wife this is hard enough for her and my mother-in-law

 

[Pegasus1300]

Sorry to hear about the sadness in your family. If he could have stayed he would have. Prayers and kind thoughts to her and all the family.

 

[Jack Klarich]

On the prayer chain, stay strong and go in peace

 

[ol' school]

Wayne, sorry for your loss. You and yours will be in your prayers.

 

[paws]

Sending thoughts and prayers of strength and comfort for you and your family..

 

[Dave59]

Very sorry for your loss, prayers on the way for the entire family.

 

[1dn5up]

Prayer sent Wayne . :angel16:

 

[Woody]

Sorry for your loss. You and yours will be in your prayers.

 

[rhino 2]

:Angel:..........ray:.......

 

[Sully]

Very sorry for your loss, prayers on the way for your family ........

 

[LadyonaMission]

Prayers for you and your family.

 

[Zammy]

Sorry for your loss Wayne, thoughts going out for all the family.

 

[David357]

So sorry to hear the news Wayne.

Thoughts & Prayers sent.

 

[wlivin2]

Thanks for the kind words I've shown them to my wife brought a tear to her eye on a good way . Even a little smile for a sec

 

[desertclassic]

Prayers for the family

 

[Motorcycle Mike]

So sorry.

Prayers sent.

 

[Marc H]

Sorry for your loss.

 

[wlivin2]

Nobody has to read

I just need to get it out, mother in law has dementia, my wife has been taking care of everything, money, doc appointment and i take care of her house, her car, her son is a pos and moved in with her now he he her convinced that my wife her daughter is stealing her money and she has more money in he bank account then she has ever had because of my wife all her bills are paid i fix her house her car and my wife and I pay for it and I always have for years even when i really don't have the money I still do it now her son is brain washing her to think my wife is stealing from her he has been diagnosed as bypooler and skitsofrenick and I am at my ends

 

[rhino 2]

I just need to get it out mother in law has dementia my wife has been taking care of everything we money doc appointment i take care of her house her car her son is a pos and moved in with her now he he her convinced that my wife her daughter is sterling her money and she has more money in he bank account then she has ever had because of my wife all her bills are paid i fix her house her car and my wife and I pay for it and I always have for years even when i really don't have the money I still do it now her son is brain washing her to think my wife is steeling from her he has been diagnosed as bypooler and skitsofrenick and I am at my ends

Wayne.. how does it go no good deed goes unpunished.

I can tell by your keystrokes that you’re frustrated and angry you just have to take a deep breath …You might have to get a third party involved?.. i.e. social services…..

 

[Jack Klarich]

I just need to get it out mother in law has dementia my wife has been taking care of everything we money doc appointment i take care of her house her car her son is a pos and moved in with her now he he her convinced that my wife her daughter is sterling her money and she has more money in he bank account then she has ever had because of my wife all her bills are paid i fix her house her car and my wife and I pay for it and I always have for years even when i really don't have the money I still do it now her son is brain washing her to think my wife is steeling from her he has been diagnosed as bypooler and skitsofrenick and I am at my ends

Wayne, you have a heavy load, I hear you calling out for some help

I will continue to pray for you and your family, I would suggest after you sleep on this try to talk to some one, preferably one that does not have any connection to family IE a pastor, or any kind of a counselor, if nothing else they could be neutral and maybe offer ideas you may not have thought of

 

[ol' school]

Wayne, we will keep you and your wife in our prayers. And the advice you received above is good advice. Please sit and talk with a neutral party and see if you can come up with some good solutions.

 

[vwbug72501]

Wayne, sorry for your loss. With regards to your mother in law's situation I would recommend that you quietly seek the help of an attorney as soon as possible. My wife has been a long term care nurse for 23 years and she has seen this scenario play out many times. It can get really crazy and sad very quickly.

We live in an environment very similar to yours (town of 10 - 15,000, county seat, not quite as close to a major population center) there is a concentration of lawyers because of the county seat, and everybody seems to know everybody (small town) environment. You should be able to find a "reputable/reasonable" lawyer that can help you proceed with the legal power of attorney process and help you dealing with the Social Services bureaucrats that will most likely become involved.

Generally, if your Mother-in -law has been diagnosed with dementia she probably cannot legally consent to power of attorney so it gets more complicated. We wish you the best of luck in this and will keep you in our prayers.

Disclaimer: I am not an attorney. I do not have any legal training. I am merely relating what I have experienced and am expressing my personal opinion in this matter.

 

[wlivin2]

Mother in law called this morning and wanted to come stay with us till we get him out of there. So we had the police meet us there so there was no trouble. Then went and got power of attorney over everything social worker will be here tomorrow and we will go from there .

Thank you all for the prayers it means a lot to me and for the advice

 

[wlivin2]

I really want to thank you all for the comments they are my hopes. I really don't have anyone else I have always been the one someone came to for help or advice.

Thank you all so much for listening to m e clearing my head you don't know how much it means to me

 

[rhino 2]

I really want to thank you all for the comments they are my hopes. I really don't have anyone else I have always been the one someone came to for help or advice.

Thank you all so much for listening to m e clearing my head you don't know how much it means to me

Wayne…I’m glad we can be of some comfort to you..

Just hang in there and if you need someone to talk to we are here and listening….

Stay Strong….

 

[Jack Klarich]

You have the community here for support

 

[wlivin2]

I just wanted to thank you all again . I keep coming back and reading the comments . I don't really have anyone that I am close with anymore so you all are a great help I read most of the forums and most make me smile

 

[rhino 2]

I just wanted to thank you all again . I keep coming back and reading the comments . I don't really have anyone that I am close with anymore so you all are a great help I read most of the forums and most make me smile

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[wlivin2]

My wife needs prayers her mom is in transition and nurses don't think she will last long Its only been a year and a half since she lost her dad

 

[rhino 2]

My wife needs prayers her mom is in transition and nurses don't think she will last long Its only been a year and a half since she lost her dad

Prayers sent…:biblehold:…